By G. E.
Shuman
This will likely be a different type
of column than what you usually get from me. I usually try to rely on a bit of
humor and the general absurdity of some aspects of life to scaffold one of
these short groups of paragraphs. This time, the theme might seem a bit more
serious, and I hope that is okay.
Today I’d like to look past the
astounding ways our lives have been changing in such abrupt fashion as they
have in only the last few weeks. Those things do amaze me, especially in their
rapid succession. Our entire nation, our entire world has been, hopefully temporarily,
thrown into a worsening situation that is evolving with each new day. By the
time you read these words many things will have changed still more.
Only yesterday, as my wife and I sat
here in our own self-imposed partial quarantine, she mentioned the idea that
perhaps our nation is finding itself in the midst of a great ‘time out’. She
and I almost daily babysit for our very active three-year-old granddaughter and
are very familiar with the meaning of a time out, for sure. Those times are
when a child is disciplined by being forced to sit still a while and
contemplate both their past behavior and what their future behavior should be.
What my very wise spouse had realized
is that perhaps we adults should consider this time of partial isolation from
‘normal’ life and community as an opportunity to do the same. We should not
hoard, but we should value the things available to us in our great nation. We should not be selfish but should find ways
to assist those around us who need assistance. We should not fear but find
comfort and strength in our faith and family, as we always should have.
One newsman that I was listening to
the other day said this is beginning to be referred to as the ‘Big Pause,’
another way of expressing the idea of a ‘time out’. A person’s conscience is
often shaken and reset by a time of adversity; perhaps this is also true of the
conscience of a nation. We do need to find common ground in this fight against
an invisible and common enemy, if we are to win. A virus is no respecter of
race, religion, sex, or political leanings.
My very wise wife also recently texted
me, from the other end of the couch, (Ain’t technology grand?) one of those
little social media ‘sayings’ that appear every day. This one looked at
quarantine measures in a very positive way. It brought some things into
perspective for me. The wording was this: “Getting outdoors, Not canceled.
Music, Not canceled. Family, Not canceled. Reading, Not canceled. Singing, Not
canceled. Laughing, Not canceled. Hope, Not canceled. Let’s embrace what we
have.”
We are hearing, day after day, that
the future is uncertain regarding the coronavirus. That, in its far-reaching
effects, is obviously true, at least so far. The virus, as the doctors and
scientists have said, will wash over our nation before it subsides. We must
hold on, hole up, and prepare for that.
Still, life is very good and much of that
goodness depends on our attitudes. I once read this quote by famous author
Charles Swindoll: “I am convinced that life is ten percent what happens to me,
and ninety percent how I react to it. And so it is with you.”
Stay safe, stay well, and stay
positive my friends.
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