By G. E. Shuman
For most adults, unless you happen to
be of a similar profession to mine, the new year begins, each and
every year, on the first day of January. Not so, in some ways, for
the millions of children in our country, and for their teachers. For
them, the new school year, whatever day it starts for them, is a much
bigger event than some snowy day on the calendar, shortly after
Christmas.
The start of the new school year, for
kids, can be an exciting, and/or exasperating time. For some it is
the beginning of a season of true dread, as summer vacation draws to
a close, and the prospect, in their minds, of nearly countless days
of classes, tests, and homework assignments looms ahead. For other
kids, and even for some of the doubters of the benefits of going back
to school, there is a feeling of excitement in the air right now. For
them it is a chance to see friends (and foes) that they haven't seen
for three months. It is an adventure filled with things like new
backpacks, lunch boxes, notebooks, pens, and some nicely-sharpened,
brand new, bright yellow, 'number 2' pencils.
As a young child I always loved those
new pencils. I actually remember wondering, since everyone had to use
those number 2s, or, I thought, go to prison, why they were not
called 'number 1' pencils. Those pencils, somehow, were actually an
important part of this yearly new beginning, for me. I don't know
why, but they made me feel like my grades would be better, and my
mind sharper, by having those sharp new pencils to use in the fresh
new year. (Don't blame me. I was just a kid.) It didn't always (or
ever) work out that way for me, but those bright yellow, pointed
pencils were good to have on that frightening first day, in a new
classroom, with a brand new, scary-looking teacher. In my day we
even had something called a pencil box. I'm not sure if kids still
use those, but one that I had was pretty cool. It had a roll-top
desk type plastic cover that slid inside of the box to reveal those
pencils, some pens, and another of my favorites, a big, pink, rubber
eraser. Remember those?
If I had a time machine, and was able
to go back and redo all of those school years of my past, there is
one lesson I have learned that I would try to remember, and follow.
It is something I should have stuck to at that time, and something I
have always encouraged my own kids to do. (I used the word
'encourage' in that last sentence, because to say that I have tried
to beat it into my kids heads all these years would sound a bit
harsh.) Truthfully, the latter is what I have tried to do, and, as a
teacher, the lesson is something I still try, hopefully more
tactfully, to relate to my students. That lesson that I wish I had
learned, and am still encouraging my youngest children to follow, is
this:
(Here is where it gets a little
serious.) Kids, and students of all ages, you NEED to study, do your
best, and take advantage of the 'advantages' you have, in being in
school in our great country. I know that statement sounds like
something one of your grandparents would say, but the reason they
would say it is because they love you, and, because, by the way, the
statement happens to be true. You have heard for years that this is
that land of opportunity, and that you can be anything you want to be
here. I don't think that all of you can be President, as we don't
need that many presidents, but you certainly have more opportunities
for success here than you would have if you lived any place else on
earth. The truth is, your parents and grandparents aren't lying to
you, or trying to torture you, as they hassle you about grades, and
homework, and studying for that next big test. Your future, in many
big respects, really does depend on your grades, and what you do
about them, right now. Going to a late, week-night movie with your
friends, or staying up all night texting before a test will not seem
like it was such a hot idea a few years from now when you are refused
acceptance at that special college you're going to apply to. That
college's admissions office won't care that you were too 'busy' to
study. They really won't.
So, (Here is where it gets VERY
serious.) this is what I have always told my own kids: Don't, and I
repeat, DON'T let your grades decide that future for you! Don't let
them limit your options for further education. Your high school
accomplishments, recorded in those grades, will be either the key, or
the lock, to what you do the rest of your life. Master them now, and
you will be the master of that future. As the school year begins, it
is the perfect time to make a fresh new start, with a great
determination to succeed. As harsh as this may sound, you need to
get your butt back to school, and get to work. (And don't forget
those number 2 pencils.) Happy New Year!
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